Before You Speak: How to Listen Well

When preparing to share a prophetic word with someone, begin by asking God a few simple questions in prayer:

• “Father, how do you want to encourage, strengthen, or comfort this person?” (1 Corinthians 14:3)
• “Is there a picture, image, or vision You want to show me?”
• “Is there a scripture that carries Your heart for them right now?”

This posture keeps the focus on love, humility, and edification.

Suggested Format for Sharing a Prophetic Word

Use gentle, open language that honours the other person’s freedom to weigh what you’re saying:

“I was praying for you and felt like God wants you to know…”

“I had a picture/vision of…”

“It reminded me of this verse…”

“I wonder if God might be saying…”

“Please weigh this and see if it resonates—no pressure to accept it all.”

Keep it brief, clear, and encouraging. Always deliver the word in a way that leaves room for interpretation and accountability.

Essential Tools for Prophetic People

These tools help you grow in discernment, track growth, and remain teachable:

• A Journal – For recording words you receive, give, or pray into. Writing helps you reflect and discern over time.
• Record of Mistakes & Successes – Document moments where your prophetic words were accurate or missed the mark. Review these with humility and openness to learn.
• Personal Prophetic Archive – Keep a dated record of all the words spoken over your own life. This helps build faith, guide decisions, and spot themes God is emphasising.

“Do not treat prophecies with contempt, but test them all; hold on to what is good.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:20–21